I have been in both countries and I know a lot of Israelis and Iranians – they are all great and I love them both!!!! We don`t we just ignore the politicians and their politics and do enjoy a kind of parallel-system? to ignore them means to forget them! That is the solution that works!
We all have the same basic human traits and the same genetics, we are all created by god and was put on this planet. Be brave, be courageous, show your true self, be orderly but do not become tyrannical be open but do not fall into chaos, accept and embrace the other but do not forget your past.